Monday, 10 November 2008

9 November 08

Emily has been sleeping until at least 7am most days lately, but of course, being away from home it was not surprising that she stirred at 5.30 and would not go back to sleep. So much for our hoped-for 8 hours of kip. We took it in turns to entertain her while the other snoozed under a nice cosy duvet. She enjoyed emptying Nick's wallet: starting as she means to go on!

Breakfast was OK, if not that substantial, and at least Emily ate all her porridge. From our table we looked out on a gloomy lake and brooding hills. It was drizzling a bit as we got aboard the first pirate ship of the day, the Victory, back across to Togendai at the northern end of Ashinoko. What would Nelson have made of the Japanese Hinomaru flag flying, and his ship being touted as a pirate boat?


Our objective was a ropeway ride to Owakudani (Hell Valley), on the slopes of a shapely peak. This was another cluster of steaming vents in a volcanic wasteland of stunted and blackened trees and yellow-streaked earth.


The ride up took us above some lovely tree colour, and in the distance marched blue-grey ridges layered with cloud.


It is a popular spot, and crowds were queuing to see black eggs being boiled in one of the hot springs. We didn't fancy waiting in line, so we took a little walk up a side trail for a few minutes, but it was too cold to keep Emily out for long. Again, we'd underestimated the conditions. Nick thinks I am mollycoddling her, but at least she's not buried in enough clothing for an Arctic expedition like most Japanese babies I've seen lately. I'm surprised they don't expire with heatstroke or suffocation.


Back in the cable car station a delicious smell wafted, which Nick correctly identified as baked sweet potato. We decided to treat ourselves to some later, but as we needed to feed Emily we headed upstairs to the restaurant. It was too early for lunch really (though Nick ordered a curry!), and maybe that is why Emily refused to eat. Frustrating, but understandable.

Afterwards we took the last ride down to Sounzan. The trees on this last leg were even more vivid

and across the valley we could see where a large kanji character had been marked out on the hillside for an Obon beacon. Typically, on our return the potato seller had just sold out his last batch, except for one little spud which we had to share.

We thought we had better get back across the lake, so sailed one more time on the Victory, getting off at Hakone-machi, half a mile further along the south shore. By the time we arrived it had come on to rain lightly, and we were really hungry. We couldn't find anywhere to eat without a queue, and needed to make our way back so that we could pick up the bus for the journey home. The road was virtually gridlocked, so I was panicking about the bus being stuck too. Consequently, I didn't enjoy the path back to Moto-Hakone, which passes through a famous cryotomeria grove, even though we found another baked sweet potato stand.

We grabbed a few provisions from 7-Eleven and rushed back to the pension to collect our backpack, noting as we passed that the queue at the bus stop was very long. As we parted from our friendly host he exhorted us to 'please come back'. It'll be a cold day in hell before that happens.


I was now really concerned about getting home. At the bus stop, a man with a light sabre was wielding it like a cattle prod, trying to cram dozens of people onto the bus. I've no idea how they managed to get so many on one vehicle, but thankfully it meant we were at head of the line for the next one, so we got a seat and could put our rucksacks on the only luggage rack. I was pleased that we did not take same windy road back to Odawara. Emily had cheese triangles and satsuma to tide her over as she had had so little lunch. Despite my panic, we got to the station at the time we'd planned. It was exciting seeing several bullet trains rip through while we waited on the platform, Odawara being on the mainline. Darkness fell as we travelled back into Tokyo.

Sunday, 9 November 2008

8 November 08

As always before a stay away from home, I was edgy and fretful before we set off for our night in Hakone. I know it winds Nick up, but I just can't help it. Anyway, we managed to get away at the time we wanted to, and were soon at Shinagawa for our shinkansen ride to Odawara, which is on the coast about 50 miles south-west of Tokyo. Again we ditched the pushchair, in favour of our fancy new baby-carrier backpack.


The high-speed bullet train whisked us there in less than half an hour; now Emily had been awake for a long time, so we set up camp in one of many coffee shops at the huge station there so that she could have a nap. The bus ride to our destination, Moto-Hakone, on the shore of Lake Ashinoko, took a little over an hour. The latter half of the route was round tortuous bends, and Emily got travel sick. She went hot, then pale, and then threw up all over me before going into a deep sleep. We were worried, and kept checking that she was still breathing! To our relief she seemed right as rain when we got to our accommodation and she woke up.

It was a small pension, the only place where we had been able to get a room at short notice in what is a very popular area for Tokyoites and in prime leaf-viewing season. Since we were paying 20,000 yen (over £100) each for the night though, we were expecting a certain level of luxury. We were therefore disappointed to find that though it was in a great lakefront location it was a slightly seedy place with cheap, stained carpet and plastic covered tables. Our room on the top floor was a good size with a large bathroom, for Japan, but no view (to be fair, we knew that before we booked) and intermittently a strong smell of drains. The owner had very good English, and was very jolly (as well he might be, fleecing his guests that much).

We wasted no time in sallying forth in search of a place to get lunch, walking along the lakeshore to some restaurants nearby. The lake is in a beautiful setting of mountains, most over 1,000 metres. The trees were a mix of cedar and deciduous trees, the latter in various stages of turning yellow and red. Unfortunately the weather, which had been a settled high for a long time, had turned grey and a bit misty, so the full brightness of the leaves was dampened, but we still appreciated the scenery.


We found a restaurant with a table on tatami mats, and pulled up a little chair for Emily, as it was way past her usual lunchtime. With a lot of coercion we got her to eat her pouch of pork risotto before we tucked into tempura on noodles and broth. Once again I wondered why they serve lovely crispy battered veggies on soup, so that it get soggy and the batter falls off. It was still very tasty, nonetheless. With her blonde hair, Emily was attracting lots of admiring glances. Two young women approached and asked hesitantly if they might touch her; they took her hand so gingerly you'd think she was made of china.

With a couple of hours of daylight left we decided to take a trip across the lake on one of the 'pirate ships' that cruise across it. We didn't stay above deck for long as there was rather a chilly breeze blowing, but did see the lower right flank of nearby Mount Fuji through the cloud before it disappeared again. It's in the middle of the picture below, but you'd have to know or you'd never guess there was a 3,600m mountain lurking there.
From the many posters we'd seen, it was frustrating to know what a fantastic view we were being deprived of. By the time we'd gone across the water and back it was close to dusk, so we made our way back to the pension to begin Emily's evening routine.


Though she was wide awake and babbling as our dinnertime approached, I took a chance and left her in the room with the monitor on, expecting her to cry. A few minutes later I crept back in, convinced the monitor wasn't working as there was no sound, only to find her fast asleep, but several feet from where I'd left her on the futon. Our meal left us full but far from happy with the quality of the food. There was a large plate of raw bonito slices - the cheapest fish you can buy, pretty much. We shared a large nabe (stew) of cabbage, tofu, mushrooms, cod and a few small scallops. It was filling but lacking any flavour. Also on offer was a huge platter of Alaskan crab legs, which the owner pressed upon us. The idea of cracking open a leg and extracting the flesh was abhorrent but I made myself try just one. Nick enjoyed the meat, but I would have liked some lemon to squeeze on to make it more palatable.

Without a communal hot tub in the place to share together, we tiptoed back into our room and ran a bath, masking the drain odour with a sachet of bath salts. Though deep, the bath was not large enough for us to get in together. We got a nice early night, at least, snuggling under our duvets at 10pm. Unfortunately Nick's mobile rang at half eleven (his mate Skid calling to tell him Arsenal had beaten Man United), and it woke Emily. She was awake for an hour or more, crawling around on the futon between our two, wanting us to play, and sitting up babbling.

7 November 08

A quiet morning followed by a playdate in the afternoon at Sharon's. Taylor was very shy and quite upset when we first went in - you would think he would be confident, being on his territory, but Emily crawled straight in and started playing with his toys while he clung to Sharon and hid his face. It took him a while to risk leaving her and join in.

Emily made a small progress step today, putting an object into a container (albeit round - hard to get wrong, unlike a square or triangle), and also dropping a ball into a chute.

6 November 08

We hadn't seen Bettina and Jo for two weeks, so were glad to escort them round the Institute for Nature Studies in Shirokanedai. Our little convoy of buggies and cute babies attracted the attention of the mainly elderly people walking round. No real sign of autumn, though the mix of trees there doesn't lend itself to vivid leaf colour.

Emily was very tired by the time we left there, and I'm afraid I gave her a breadstick to prevent her from falling asleep until we got to a cafe, as her eyes were starting to roll and her head to loll. All the parenting principles I set out with are gradually being eroded!

Isy has thrown down the gauntlet: she is seven weeks younger than Emily but already walking with assistance.

Wednesday, 5 November 2008

5 November 08

A momentous day in the States, with Obama winning the election. I was quite nervous as the results began to roll in, but it soon became apparent that he would take it comfortably. I was so glad that America had the courage to vote for a black man. He has a lot of charisma, and if he is half as genuine and passionate as he appears then surely great things will happen.

Emily is so sweet; I feel so full of regret that her grandmothers can't see her more often. She can't remain this cute forever!

Sunday, 2 November 2008

2 November 08

Emily really likes watching us brush our teeth, and recently she has started practising with my electric brush. A good idea, now that she has a tooth.


Having returned the baby carrier to Bettina and Steve, we needed to buy one before our trip to Hakone, so our afternoon trip out was to the sportswear quarter near Jimbocho. Most shops seemed to be focusing on skiing and snowboarding, but after a frustrating time ploughing through heavy crowds we found that L-Breath stocked three carriers for us to choose from. Emily was taken with the free little teddy bear that came with the Deuter carrier, but we chose it for more practical reasons as it was the best fit for Nick.

1 November 08

A lazy day, with a sunny afternoon walk through Azabu Juban to the bright lights and glitzy shops of Roppongi Hills, stopping off on the way for a late lunch at a Thai restaurant.
Emily enjoyed playing in the family room there, but the convex mirror made her head look elongated, reminding us of how it was after the ventouse.